I am exhausted from digging the hyundai elantra out. I had parked it up by the garage - not intending to drive it again until snow was gone. However Mom is having cataract surgery tomorrow morning. She can't get into the truck without alot of help. I cannot heft her 146 pounds up into it by myself. So...
The car had a foot of hard frozen solid snow/ice on it. So that was the first attack. Thank goodness it is a smaller car. I was huffing and puffing just doing that. Then the snow was high as the door panels. I had dig out snow from under the car. I jumped in the car and rocked and rolled. Snow under the tires turned to ice. Back into the motel for kitty litter. That helped some. There was alot more of shoveling, digging out under the car with my hands, more kitty litter, more rocking. Finally Mike must have figured out I wasn't just out playing in the snow (his breathing was not good today, and anytime outdoors in the cold and he is even worse) and came out. He got the Tahoe to give me a push forward again.. and then more shoveling. Another push.. Rock and roll. After an HOUR the car was free.
We were full this weekend. As we have been this entire winter. A quiet bunch of people. Alot of new guests that we enjoyed meeting. So many interesting stories.
Mom is having the cataract on her left eye removed tomorrow morning. This is a very thick cataract that has her totally blind in that eye. She has one in her right eye also. It is not as thick, and will be removed March 3.
What is fascinating to me is that Mom never said anything about not being able to see. The eye doctor said the left one was at least there 15 years! She had never told anyone she had cataracts. She lost her glasses a few months ago (although her story is that my brother took them to wear himself!) and that's when I made an eye appointment to learn she has very little vision due to the cataracts. She has never said one word about not being able to see, or even that things were blurry.
Even now when I tell her she is having surgery. She asks each time what for and then states she has never had a problem with cataracts or seeing. So I am curious if she will notice her vision has improved and say something, or just accept it as always being good vision. Somehow the Alzheimers doesn't make her question her vision.
Although it has to questioning everything I say. Or why she is in a facility. Everyday she asks me why she is there andn then insists that she was doing much better at the farmhouse. When I explain she has alzheimers and her memory made it unsafe for her to be alone she becomes irratated that I would make up such a story. It sure would be nice if the Alzheimers would just forget she ever had a farmhouse. I have never in my 20 years of nursing had an Alzheimers patient that remembers their home that clearly. Every day! Everyday she insists she is going home.
If you want to enjoy some great winter pictures of Michigan in Winter check out John McCormicks photos. I have shared many of his beautiful pictures on facebook. His talent shows the wonder and awesome beauty of our state.